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We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it
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April 13, 2019

Nora McInerny: We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it

15:05 minutes · Filmed Nov 2018 · Posted Apr 2019 · TEDWomen 2018

In a talk that's by turns heartbreaking and hilarious, writer and podcaster Nora McInerny shares her hard-earned wisdom about life and death. Her candid approach to something that will, let's face it, affect us all, is as liberating as it is gut-wrenching. Most powerfully, she encourages us to shift how we approach grief. "A grieving person is going to laugh again and smile again," she says. "They're going to move forward. But that doesn't mean that they've moved on."

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Well done. Did your research find a difference between the risk taking behaviors of boys and girls. My experience indicates that there is a big difference. A chart comparing the two would be informative.”

Commenter: harvey fein
Talk: Kashfia Rahman
How risk-taking changes a teenager's brain

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